The Struggles of Being a Kpop Fan in the Fanbase
As a long-time Kpop fan, I've encountered a spectrum of experiences within the fanbase. Some moments bring joy and meaningful connections, but others can be deeply frustrating and even exasperating.
Obsessive Fan Behavior
Firstly, let's address the obsessive behavior within the fanbase. Some fans, particularly saesangs and dedicated fans of specific groups, can be delusional and overly obsessed. My mother often describes having idol pictures and albums as a sign of obsession, but I believe it can be more about admiration. However, when the fandom's obsession spirals into irrational ships or personal possessions, it becomes problematic.
Blatant examples of this include the stake claim made by some fans, such as "Nooooo Jungkook is mine!" Idle idols are not personal belongings or property to be possessed. Such behaviors foster an unhealthy culture where idols are reduced to objects rather than individuals.
Repetitive Concepts and Music
A frequent complaint among long-time Kpop fans is the repetitive nature of fanbase content and music. With a plethora of groups to choose from, I currently stan over 10 Kpop groups, yet I am frustrated by the repetitive concepts. Songs and themes tend to cycle, leading to a sense of redundancy. During study sessions, I often find myself getting distracted by Kpop tunes, forcing me to seek out new music to avoid this issue.
The repetitive content is further exacerbated by the lack of innovative concepts, which can bother and frustrate fans like me. While it's important to support and connect with the fandom, the constant replay of similar ideas can become tiring.
Taken Too Personally
Another frustration is the personalization of Kpop discourse. Terms like BTS (Bangtan Boys) can become overly specific, excluding alternative meanings. For instance, the phrase might refer to "BTS (Behind the Scenes)" in other contexts. Similarly, when fans take their alliances and community identity so seriously that any criticism of their beloved idols triggers huge reactions, it can feel like a fight rather than a discussion. This type of obsessive thinking can lead to fandom wars and entertainment rumors, causing more harm than good.
For example, when fans get so invested in every rumor and razor-sharp about defending their idols, such behaviors only serve to fuel negative content online. The delusion and obsession can create an unhealthy environment that is far from productive.
Stays Fanbase and Obsession
Let's also shine a spotlight on the SK (Stray Kids) fandom. Considered one of the biggest and delusional fanbases, being a part of the Stray Kids fanbase sometimes feels like stepping into a whirlwind of extreme idol obsessiveness. Starting with Stray Kids as a starter pack for new fans is a common trajectory, which quickly escalates into a frenzy of obsession. This heightened level of enthusiastic fandom can be overwhelming, making recommendations to stay in your place a frequent topic of discussion.
Understandably, the focus on idols can sometimes overshadow the need to maintain a healthy balance, which is why it's important to spend time in moderation.
Netizens and Idol Treatment
Shaming and harassment directed towards idols from the fanbase can be particularly concerning. The treatment of idols can be harsh and unfounded, such as targeting idols for their weight, singing abilities, and even personal challenges. It's important to consider the sensitivity and well-being of the idols. For example, when an idol drinks Starbucks to combat rumors of substance abuse, this should not be a reason for a boycott. Idol lifestyles are diverse and complex, and fans should strive to support idols with understanding and compassion.
The pressure on idols to perform perfectly is immense, leading to emotional stress and mental strain. As fans, it's crucial to remember that idols are human beings who deserve respect and support rather than constant criticism.
In conclusion, while the Kpop fanbase has its rewarding moments, it also faces challenges that require awareness and understanding. Whether it's managing obsessive fandom, repetitive concepts, or the harsh realities of public life, being a conscious and informed fan is crucial. Kpop has the power to bring joy and unity, and it's important to maintain a respectful and supportive community.